Communication is not hard, it's just hurtful - and thats why we are scared to communicate.

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Today I realized this fact. That communication is not hard, its just often hurtful - and thats why we are scared to communicate. Since few weeks, me and my relationship is having a lot of serious conversation, and today one, was like a slap in a face. And I don't mean it was bad, I'm actually really happy about this slap. It's because it made realize some important things. For sure the punch itself was hurtful, but I needed it. 

I'm actually so so grateful for my relationship, and I am so happy that he actually communicates with me. It was a tough time for us but now we are finally getting better, and I am actually so happy to be in a healthy relationship. It gave me an incredible sense of peace and security. I'm also happy that I managed to open up to him, which was very difficult for me. I'm working at myself 💓